Traditional etiquette encourages polite people to shake
hands when meeting in professional and social situations. But is this courteous
protocol a smart step during cold and flu season? Might folks be sharing more
than manners by cordially pressing palms?
Germaphobes
may cringe at the possibility. Others may join them during epidemics or when
they hear a cough, sneeze, or sniffle.
Virtually everyone has heard the horror stories of folks who
don’t wash their hands regularly. We’re aware that hand sanitizer gels and
creams may
not work as thoroughly as we once thought.
What if you walk into a job interview or a business
conference, and the person you are meeting coughs or sneezes right into his or her palm
before extending it to you for a handshake? What will you do?
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We shudder to think of it. That might even be worse than
grasping the handle of a shopping cart, right after a sniffling kid has sat in
the seat and clutched the same bar.
Handshake - public domain photo |
So we shrink from
hand-shaking.
In fact, a surprising number of reasonably rational
individuals shy away from handshakes on occasion. In one very friendly
Midwestern church, for example, the pastor jokingly urges congregants to tap
elbows in greeting, rather than shaking hands. It’s become a comical tradition
of sorts.
Could hugs be
healthier than handshakes?
Plenty of people opt for hugs, rather than handshakes, when
meeting up with familiar friends and relatives. A hug tends to transmit fewer
germs than a handshake, simply because the hands often carry more possible
contagions than arms, shoulders, and other hugging parts.
The secret, of course, is to turn one’s head away while
hugging, to avoid face-to-face germ sharing.
Still, hugging may not work in the boardroom, the job
interview, or the sales call, where handshakes are as traditional as the grey
flannel suit. A hug might raise
a few hackles … and eyebrows in the workplace.
Can we come up with
polite alternatives to the handshake?
What handy ways can folks avoid shaking hands without
causing concerns over courtesy, friendliness, or overall attitude? Some may
carry a gift, a document, or a business card and immediately move to hand it to
the other person (rather than shaking hands). With solid eye contact, a ready
smile, and a surplus of poise, he or she might just pull it off.
Image/s:
Adapted from public domain image.
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