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Monday
5 reasons I might refuse your JOIN GROUP request on Facebook
Social networking can be a strategic part of career
networking, for sure. But it takes some savvy to do it well. Just being a
joiner, seeking membership into as many Facebook groups as possible, is not
enough.
Having started a few special-interest Facebook groups, I
have found myself groaning over nearly daily lists of JOIN GROUP requests from
folks that clearly have no legitimate reasons for wanting in. I handily reject
these requests.
OK, hold it right there. I’m not trying to be elitist or
exclusive. The issue is spam.
Consider these five
reasons I might refuse a JOIN GROUP request on Facebook.
None of these criteria for denying a request to join a
Facebook group is prejudicial. These issue simply point to the likelihood of a
petitioner being a potential spammer, rather than actually seeking to participate
in the Facebook group.
Take a look. Here’s
why I might reject your request, if you ask for entry to my Facebook groups.
Don’t take this personally, please. This post is aimed at
being helpful and instructive. And, hey. I have accepted at least 2,000 member
requests for one particular group, which is targeted to a very specific
interest niche. Another group is growing rapidly as well.
1. We have no mutual
friends on Facebook. Suppose my Facebook group is about Biking in Ohio. If
you and I both pursue this activity, wouldn’t we be likely to share a few Facebook
friends?
Here’s a definite red flag. If your profile reveals that you
have NO Facebook friends at all, then you will surely look like a spammer.
2. Your entire
Facebook profile page is written in a foreign language. This is not an
ethnic bias. If your online activity occurs in another tongue, it may be a fair
bet that you are not an active participant in the pursuit covered by a local or
regional Facebook group (as mine are). For example, am I honestly to believe
you are a Grand Rapids quilter, if your Facebook page is composed solely in
another alphabet?
3. You already belong
to a bazillion Facebook groups on all sorts of topics. Unless you are a spammer, can you actively
participate in that many online communities? Could you possibly be passionate about that many subjects? Or are you simply selling something?
4. Your Facebook
profile page shows no hint of the Facebook group’s focus. Here’s a tip. Suppose I
run a Facebook group about agility dog training and competitions. Before you send me a JOIN GROUP
request, you might want to have a few dog photos on your own profile page.
5. Your current
location is nowhere near the region covered by the Facebook group. Here we
go again. Let’s say a Facebook group is all about Gulf Coast fishing, but your
Facebook profile page indicates you live in Paris, France. As the group
administrator, won’t I wonder why you wish to join?
Like any Facebook group administrator, I’d love to see my
groups grow and gain interest in their own arenas. But I refuse to overlook the
possibility of inappropriate joiners, who might only clutter the Facebook group
walls with spam ads for sneakers, sunglasses, or get-rich-quick schemes.
Smart networkers work the ‘net strategically, but also
appropriately.
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Thursday
Do you love your work or just work for a living?
Does your profession come from your personal passion, or do you work it
because it works?
Maybe some people really love what they do for a living. Sure,
we all know people like that. They seem to leap out of bed each morning, raring
to go. They can’t wait for the weekend to end, so they can jump right back into
their livelihoods.
Or maybe not.
How many more people go through the motions, whether they
honestly enjoy their jobs or not? Certainly, they appreciate being able to pay
their bills, keep the home afloat, and perhaps make a mark in the world
somewhere. Perhaps their occupations occupy lots of their time, while they earn
enough to finance their real passions. Maybe they have hobbies, personal
ministries, or a volunteer pursuits. That counts for plenty, so they show up
for work.
Most American workers seem to feel at least somewhat
disengaged from their jobs, according
to a 2015 Gallop poll. That doesn’t mean employees aren’t meeting deadlines
or quotas or that they are shirking their responsibilities across the board. They just aren't feeling it.
The Journal of Applied Psychology recently
published the findings of a Tel Aviv University study (in collaboration
with the London School of Economics), examining the costs or benefits of
pursuing one’s passions in the workplace. The research
followed 450 high school music students for 11 years, tracing their
careers. Those who carved out music careers earned statistically less than
those who worked in other fields and continued musical pursuits outside of
their jobs. On the other hand, the professional
musicians indicated higher career satisfaction then their musically-oriented
counterparts who were earning more money by working in other industries.
How might these
findings be applied to folks in any career path?
"If you experience a strong calling, you need to be
cognizant of your relative preferences for intrinsic versus extrinsic rewards
and potential trade-offs between the two, then decide accordingly," said Daniel
Heller of Tel Aviv University's Recanati School of Business.
Perhaps chasing
career dreams has a cost. But maybe it’s worth it, if the desire is strong
enough.
Does security trump stimulation, when it comes to choosing a
career? Is value worth more than values? Or is it more a matter of duty
overriding desire to follow one’s personal or professional propensities?
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Wednesday
After-school jobs prep teens for the work world.
Whether mixing malts at the mall, stocking shelves at the
shoe stor,e or flinging fries at the fast-food store, teenagers are working at
part-time jobs all over. After school, on weekends and during school vacations,
adolescents are sampling the working world and earning their own money, usually
for the first time.
Although most teens seek work primarily for the pay it will
provide, a job can offer additional rewards, such as professional and personal
training for adult life. After-school jobs for teens are not just about earning
gas money.
What money management
lessons can kids learn by holding part-time jobs?
1. Hard work pays
off.
For most people, easy money is not nearly as satisfying as
earned funds. Parents who do not encourage their teens to obtain jobs actually
may rob their young adults of this wonderful sense of accomplishment.
Does anyone ever forget that very first real paycheck? How
about the first pay raise, particularly if it has been awarded for on-the-job
merit or achievements?
2. Character actually
does count.
Many companies offer employee-of-the-month programs. Workers
who display reliability, dependability, honesty, effort, personal initiative,
and other positive character traits may see their names embossed on brass
plates and displayed at the workplace for all to see. Perhaps a photo will be
added. Maybe the employee-of-the-month will be featured on the company’s
website.
Recognition at the workplace is rewarding, particularly for
young up-and-coming future careerists. Regardless of the nature of the first
job, who doesn’t love to be appreciated and featured? What’s more, employees
who consistently display strong character will be most likely to earn
performance bonuses, which will spell greater earnings.
3. Punctuality earns
points.
Anyone can do the math here. Arriving on time for a job is
essential. A teen will quickly discover the need to be on-site before his or
her shift begins. Along the same lines, clocking out on time (no earlier or
later, unless the employer approves it) will reap rewards as well.
On the other hand, failure to adhere to the employer’s
schedule will lead to negative consequences, perhaps including the loss of the
job. Punctuality is a powerful statement of an employee’s reliability, and a
basic expectation of all employers.
4. Organization is
essential.
Personal organization is paramount to any profession. Teens
who hold part-time jobs will learn procedures for performing tasks and probably
also for record-keeping.
At home, as adolescents begin bringing home paychecks, they
will enjoy hands-on lessons in basic banking and bookkeeping. They will have to
file tax withholding forms, as well as annual tax returns. By doing so, most
will be pleased to receive tax refunds!
5. Delayed
gratification can be good.
Whatever the wage level, working teens learn to plan for
important purchases. Quite quickly, they begin calculating how long it may take
to earn sufficient funds for car expenses or other significant items.
Gainful employment also offers teens the ability to support
their own recreational interests, such as movies and dining out with friends. By
chipping hard-earned funds to pay for gasoline, a young adult may quickly
become an expert on the rise and fall of oil prices, as well as other current
economic trends.
Is there any more powerful way to learn firsthand the value
of a dollar, besides earning that dollar on one’s own?
Wise parents will help teens to plan, right from the very
first paycheck, to stash some cash in the bank. Why not take a teen to the
bank, with that check in hand, and setting up an individual savings account? Perhaps
the family has established trustee or custodial accounts for that child, with
higher education and other interests in mind. However, the personal account has
another purpose. By setting up a separate savings account with the teen,
parents offer that youngster an opportunity to practice fiscal responsibility,
without granting access to important long-term investments.
A teen who learns to pay himself or herself right away, in
terms of savings, will benefit greatly in the long run. Even a savings deposit
of $20 per paycheck can pile up over time.
7. Tithing builds
trust.
Families who tithe will want to impress this upon teens,
once they begin earning their own money. Many parents begin this when children
are quite young, if they receive allowances or payment for babysitting or
chores. Learning this early sets a young person up for a lifetime of blessing.
8. Working is
worthwhile.
A teenager’s part-time job may require a certain level of
commitment from the rest of the family, particularly the parents. Perhaps
transportation will be needed, to and from work. Family schedules may need to
be altered to accommodate the adolescent’s work schedule. Trips and vacations
may be affected by hourly shifts and other job requirements.
Still, most families will determine that the teen’s job
experience is well worth the cost.
9. After-school jobs
can open doors for future employment.
Working teens often enjoy jump starts to their
post-education careers that non-working young people do not have. It’s never
too early to start networking, especially on the job. And how many working teenagers
gain helpful professional and character references after proving themselves to
be valuable employees?
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